NEURODIVERGENT LIFE COACHING

NEURODIVERGENT life coaching

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Certified Psychodynamic Life Coach Specialising in Neurodivergent Adults

Combining lived neurodivergent experience with extensive clinical expertise to help hundreds of ND adults transform their relationship with themselves and thrive authentically.

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To help neurodivergent people be more able to be themselves and live their lives in full


I envision a world where neurodivergent adults don't just survive—they thrive. Where they embrace their unique wiring as a strength, not a limitation. Where they live authentically, love deeply, and contribute their gifts to the world without apology.

EXPERIENCE THAT MATTERS

LIVED EXPERIENCE

As a neurodivergent individual myself, I understand both the challenges and incredible strengths we possess. I've navigated the journey from feeling broken and out of place to embracing my neurodivergent mind as a superpower.

CLINICAL EXPERTISE

Years of clinical experience supporting hundreds of neurodivergent adults, with specialised training in psychodynamic approaches adapted specifically for neurodivergent minds.

COMPREHENSIVE UNDERSTANDING

I work with adults across the neurodivergent range of experience—Autism, ADHD, Dyspraxia, Dyslexia, and other neurological differences—whether newly diagnosed, self-identified, or long-aware.

My Focus: Simplifying Your Path

Through my work with hundreds of neurodivergent clients and my own transformation, I've identified the core patterns that keep ND adults stuck.

Here's my promise: It doesn't have to be so complicated.

I cut through the noise, the overwhelm, and the confusion to give you clear, actionable steps that work specifically for neurodivergent minds.

Solving the Three Core Struggles

My specialised approach addresses the fundamental challenges that keep neurodivergent adults from living authentically and fully.

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    Feeling Different and Like an Outsider

    That crushing sense of not belonging, of being fundamentally different, of wearing a mask just to survive social situations. I help you not just accept your differences, but celebrate them.

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    Feeling Overwhelmed by a Neurotypical World

    Constant sensory overload, executive dysfunction, emotional dysregulation. I teach you practical strategies to stay regulated, healthy, and thriving—working with your brain, not against it.

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    Carrying Historic Painful Experiences

    Years of misunderstanding, rejection, trauma, and internalized shame. Using psychodynamic approaches, we'll process these experiences safely, helping you step into your full authentic self.

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Comprehensive Coaching Designed for Neurodivergent Adults

$999

This isn't generic life coaching. Over six weekly focused sessions, we'll work together using specialized assessment tools and psychodynamic approaches to create meaningful, lasting change that honors how you're naturally wired.

Each package includes a comprehensive assessment, five follow-up coaching sessions, custom audio resources, and between-session support. Payment plans available.

If you're ready to work with your neurodivergent self rather than against it, and create a life that truly works for how you're wired, let's start with a conversation.

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Ready to Begin?

Pete Tobias is a certified psychodynamic life coach specialising in neurodivergent adults. Combining lived experience with professional expertise, Pete has supported hundreds of neurodivergent adults in moving from feeling broken to recognising and embracing their unique strengths.